I’ve long believed that the best way to experience miracles is to simply notice them. You decide what your experience is, by consciously looking for what you want to see in the world, and choosing the story you tell yourself about your life.
If you want to love your life, the first step is paying attention to all that you already love inside of your life
One of the first things that I teach my 1-1 coaching clients is to identify the feelings, outcomes, and desires they want to see bloom in their life, and to look for the seeds of these wants that already exist inside of their life.
What if you already have what you want, or a smaller version of it?
How can you expand your sense of appreciation and awareness for that thing?
This is how you grow what you want to see more of: you look for the ways in which what you want is already here, and expand your focus on it, letting it take up more of your identity, and truly enjoying what you already have.
If you want to keep yourself from getting what you want, keep telling yourself that you do not yet have it, that you do not yet deserve it, and that you’d have no idea what to do with it if you got it
If you ever feel like life is happening to you, like you are ‘separate’ from the things you truly want, and that you cannot touch or reach them, then you essentially reenforce this reality into your mind. You tell yourself you are separate from what you want. That you are not yet adequate for it. That you do not yet deserve it. And your mind will continue to look for (and find) evidence that this is the case.
Okay, so if that’s how NOT to get what you want with ease, then how do you get what you want? And how do you start to FEEL truly blessed, with what you already have, as you get there?
This essay will help you if you are ready to integrate an identity upgrade that allows you to FEEL closer to the things you want, enabling you to act in genuine alignment with achieving, attracting and receiving those desires. It will also help you feel the abundance that you already have access to, and create a conscious practice of connecting to it daily. Let’s get into it: